The Always Evolving and Partially Unwritten Five-Year Plan

About Us

Hello! We are Dan and Jenny McNair, from Atlanta, GA (USA) and we moved to Kuala Lumpur in July 2010. For more on why, check out our “Five-Year Plan?” page.

Our blogging started pretty much right away but we quickly realized how challenging it was to keep it updated as frequently as originally planned. Lately we’ve worked on increasing our posts and adding some new features. Hope you like it! We started blogging for two reasons: (1) to keep friends and family updated on our adventures through short stories and photos; and (2) to offer some travel tips to readers who might be in a similar place we were a couple years ago, because when we researched online before our move, it was hard to find good information about being an expat in Malaysia and teaching at an international school.

Our favorite blog entries so far are:

Savong’s School (by Jenny)

First Encounter with an Expat (Dan)

Life in Malaysia has been very different from home but we knew it would be, so rather than experiencing “culture shock”, we tried to keep an open mind about the differences and to laugh at and learn from them as much as possible. Overall, the experience has been amazing and we would definitely recommend others to try it. We would do it again in a heartbeat, but we’d also be lying if we denied being at least a little homesick. Coming from Georgia, perhaps the thing we miss the most is the “southern hospitality” we probably took for granted. The unique food in Malaysia has been an interesting adventure, travel is incredibly easy (both within as well as in-and-out-of KL) and there’s a tremendous diversity here that makes it an exciting place to live and work.

Thanks to the international school network, we felt very well prepared for our transition to Kuala Lumpur. If anything, perhaps we would have packed differently or chosen a different flight. We didn’t really know what we would need to bring, and in hindsight we could have survived by bringing fewer clothes and instead packing more pictures and reminders of home. Also, by taking a flight with so many stops shared by different airlines, we fell victim to the lost/delayed baggage experience which was a tough way to spend the first few days in a foreign country. Full story on that here…

As it’s well-known that expat life comes with some hilarious anecdotes and funny experiences, we tried to capture just a few of the ones we’ve witnessed on our page called “The Bizarre“. Perhaps the most frequently recurring theme that we find humorous, is the creativity with which people in this region are able to pack humans, animals and the most incredible amount of stuff onto their motorbikes. It’s amazing how much one can carry, and amazing that there are not more accidents.

When asked which three tips we would give future expats before they embark on their new life in Malaysia, we suggest the following:

(1) Connect. Try to connect with someone who’s done it. Plug into the network early that will be your core community once you move, sync up with strangers through social media or contact us! Regardless of who you speak with, it’s helpful to have someone you can pepper with questions about all the “little details”, before you set foot on the plane for your moving day.

(2) Research. Do your own research through blogs, websites, reviews, etc. Find out as much as you can about the various areas where you might be considering to buy or rent your home. By doing a little homework on the front end, you can find a lot of information about schools, housing, cost of living, entertainment, restaurants, public transit and work commutes all before you sign the paperwork on your new place.

(3) Plan & Prepare. Once you have gathered as much help as you can to answer your questions, put together a plan including checklists and calendar dates. What do you need to do at home and by when, in order to be ready to leave? For us it included selling and storing a lot of stuff. Also, what do you want/need to pack and bring with you versus buying when you arrive? Unless you have an unlimited budget for excess and overweight bags, you will likely need to rely on some creative packing techniques and making some tough decisions about what to leave behind.

The expat community in KL is very well established. While we have not participated as much in the corporate environment of expats, it’s very visible and offers a lot to its members. You can enjoy it for the diversity of the countries represented, or find a sub-group of members specific to your home nation. There are countless events, publications and organizations designed to make expat life easier and more interesting in Malaysia. Our network centered around the international school community and we were fortunate to meet a lot of fellow educators to go through this experience together, as well as some who were more seasoned from whom we were able to learn.

Just remember, with regard to expat life in Malaysia (and likely most other foreign countries), “if you keep your eyes open, you will see something everyday that you’ve never seen before.”

If you’re considering a similar adventure and have questions, or already lived it and have stories, we’d love to hear from you.

4 responses

  1. Hello! My name is Malte Zeeck, and I am with I really enjoyed reading your fantastic blog! I think expats in Malaysia and around the world could really gain some great insights from this page. The quality of the blog in general is very convincing, which is why I would love to feature you and your writing on the Recommended Blog on Malaysia section on
    Not only do we feature and link to your blog prominently; we also would like to hear from you directly in our questionnaire! We have also designed a link badge for your blog.
    If you are interested, please feel free to contact me via email:

    Malte Zeeck

    March 12, 2012 at 3:29 PM

    • jgmcrew

      Thanks Malte! We will be in touch!

      March 13, 2012 at 12:11 AM

  2. Jennifer

    What a great surprise to run across your blog while I was goggling the kidnapping to get updates! I have to laugh.. i’m cleaning out my clothes and am really shocked at how much I am getting rid of before our move to KL! I’m afraid I’m getting rid of too much.

    ANyway…. it is so nice to read about someone else’s adventure in KL. I can’t wait to get more time to read a bit more of your blog. My hubby is over there now and we are moving there in July. Our highschool daughter will be attending MKIS so I’m looking fwd to reading more of your blog.

    Oh… and i”m so happy to hear that the student was returned and they caught the kidnappers and how much the school came together during that time. We really got a nice feeling visiting MKIS in March and felt very welcomed.

    OH… we are coming from NJ, where we have lived for the past 24 years… but I grew up in Texas so I know what you mean about missing the Southern Charm as I’ve missed that up here! 🙂

    May 21, 2012 at 1:28 AM

    • jgmcrew

      So nice to hear from you Jennifer! You will love your time here at MKIS, it really is a great place for families. As for packing, isn’t it funny how much you don’t realize you have until you have to pack it all?! Good luck with the move and please let me know if I can do anything to help. Thanks for reading!

      May 25, 2012 at 11:08 AM

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