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Opps, I did it again!

We can thank Ms. Brittany Spears for that gem of a song to which so many Halloween costumes and skanky dance team numbers pay homage to.  You can also title a blog after it. It’s really a jack of all trades kinda phrase.

I digress. I was trying to distract you from the fact that this is the first post I have written since Thanksgiving. Gasp. After all the hand wringing and teeth gnashing of not writing on the blog for several months, I have fallen off the wagon again. I guess the good thing about a wagon is that it is going so slow that you can just climb back on again. So, this is me, virtually and metaphorically hopping back on the wagon today.

It’s not like nothing has been happening in the last 2 months, in fact, there has been a lot going on. I’ll run through the highlights to get everyone up to speed.

1) I would say that the biggest news is that Dan has left to go back to the US to start working. I’m beyond sad that he has gone without me, but we had been talking about it for a period of time  and while we didn’t want to be apart for so long, we both agreed this was an opportunity for him to do something he really enjoyed and set us up to be in a better spot when I come home in July. I’m not going to lie, it’s lonely without your best friend around, especially in a foreign country. But we do have some really good friends that make me break out of my hermit shell every now and then. Dan is loving the move back home (minus the lack of Jenny time, of course), is loving his work and is loving being able to go to Chick-fil-A pretty much everyday.

2) We went on an awesome “Farewell Asia” trip at Christmas that took us to Cambodia, Thailand and Vietnam. It was a really nice trip and I promise I will put pictures up and talk about each of the trips separately. And, I am also going to go back and highlight each of our trips here on the blog. I didn’t do a really good job of that in real time, so I’m going to start at the beginning and my goal is to have all of our trips somehow documented on the blog by the time I leave in July. There it is. I said it. Now I have to actually do it. 🙂

3) I have started doing some writing again and have really loved it. In addition to teaching and tutoring, I am working with a company that outsources the writing articles for people’s blogs. I am one of the people that researches and writes on random topics that they give me. Seriously random topics, but somebody has to do it. It has been nice to start thinking, creating and editing again, something that I’m not even sure I knew I missed doing.

4) Happy Birthday Henry! How could we let a post go by and not talk about Henry? His 7th birthday is today (Feb. 2nd) and I am sure he is living it up with chasing anything that moves, napping, and passing gas when no one is looking. Who doesn’t like a birthday that includes all three of those things?

So, that is about it with what has been going on with us lately. What about you? Any advice for loving your honeykins from another continent? Random blogs you have read and thought to yourself…”Who in the world writes this stuff?” (Me. The answer is Me.)


Thank yous!

This post isn’t going to get any points for originality, but in the spirit Thanksgiving I thought I would try and come up with 50 things that I am thankful for this year. How do you ask, did I arrive at the number 50? Well, I felt like 10 seemed like I wasn’t really showing a lot of effort. I mean, my first graders came up with five each this week for goodness sakes. I did like the symbolism of 30 things that I was thankful for, being as there are 30 days in November. Then I ran across some over achievers on the internet that were doing 100 things to be thankful for! What?! Really people, you get past a certain point and you are just making things up. Unless you are Kate Middleton, in which case you might be able to round out the 100 thoughtfully and accurately.  So, being half a princess myself, I decided to go for 50.

I don’t know if anyone that might read this really even cares what I am thankful for this year, but on days that the frustration level of living in a foreign country gets so high that I swear I might lose it and I can’t think of a single, solitaire thing to be thankful for, I thought it might help to put things in perspective. Like storing up some thankfulness to be opened as needed. Although working today wasn’t the same fun as running a half marathon and stuffing your face with loved ones by the fire, it will have to do for this year. In no particular order, here comes the silly, sappy, and serious things that I am thankful for in 2011.

1. My Mom. Behind every good girl, there is a great mom. Seriously, my mom  is awesome in so many ways I can’t even begin to write them all here. I am so thankful for her giving nature, her persistence in everything, and taking care of so many things for us while we are overseas.

2. My Dad. My dad is also an awesome guy. I (selfishly) love it even more that he lives on the same side of the planet as us right now! It makes weekends so much better when we can go and visit him in Singapore, eat some yummy food, visit Vivo City and listen to some of his corny jokes. Plus, he is doing an amazing job at Universal Studios Singapore. He won’t brag about it, so I will!

3. Singapore. When Malaysia just gets a little too crazy, dirty and unorganized for me, visiting Singapore is like hanging out with the beautiful, polite, well groomed sister that you never get tired of.

4. Teaching friends. They make me only want to have three drinks when I get home on Friday instead of seven or eight.

5. Room mom. I have the best room mom in the world. She is bakes, subs, throws amazing parties and in general makes things easier for me.

6. Travel. I am so thankful that we have had the AMAZING opportunity to travel to so many places in the past year. So far we have been to Australia, New Zealand, Thailand, Vietnam, Singapore, and Indonesia! We will be heading to Cambodia in December too. Pretty sweet.

7. Henry. You didn’t think I was going to have a list without him, did you? He’s the best dog ever. End of story. If you have met him you know this to be true. I can’t wait to see him in 7 months. Never leaving him again.

8. Mags. She is orange, funny, vocal, fat, and comes when she is called. She is pretty much the best cat ever. Dan “I really don’t like cats” McNair, even affirmed the sentiment the other day. Impressive.

9. Honeykins. I am so thankful I picked him. After this adventure I feel like we can accomplish anything together and am looking forward to the next one. (Maybe a little closer to home next time?)

10. Sistas. I don’t get to live in the sista house right now, but I get so excited to hear about the cool things they are doing back in the states and am so proud of them for being fabulous.

11. Kindle. A portable library. Need I say more?

12. Spell check. I would look pretty stupid without it. For the record, I blame the Canadian education system for my spelling failings.

13. Pinterest. Obsessed.

14. Australia. The best vacation ever. Beautiful country, nice people, and good food. Whenever I need to go to my happy place, I just go to Australia.

15. Good health. I really hesitated to even write it, because I didn’t want to jinx anything. But, compared to last year, I have had significantly less food poisoning, stitches, and general doctors visits. Thank goodness.

16. Being an American. Not putting anyone else’s country down, just proud of mine.

17. Fresh fruit all winter. The watermelon and mango are amazing all year long here! And the mango is so good, my sister calls in “Malaysian Crack.” Seriously, it’s that good.

18. Tennis. Discovering I like to play tennis has been revolutionary! I love the feeling of a solidly hit ball right on the line and the cute skirts. I’m not very good, but I have a great tennis partner and tennis coach. I’m also super pumped about going home and playing with my mom and friend Leigh.

19. Rowing. Not having rowing here has solidified how much I love it and can’t wait to start coaching again when I get back to the states. Dad Vails, Head of the Charles and erg tests, here I come!

20. Glee. Biggest Loser, Modern Family. I know they say television rots your brain, but I love these shows. I am thankful for Glee because I always wanted to be in a broadway show (although I can’t sing or dance.) I can practice my carefully choreographed dance moves all from the safety of my living room. Biggest Loser never fails to make me cry, but in a good way. And Modern Family is just clever. Love it.

21. Facebook. It lets me keep in touch with people from far away. Priceless.

22. People who spay and neuter pets. Listen to Bob Barker people!

23. My camera. Love that I can take pictures to remember all of the amazing stuff we are doing. That being said, I can’t wait to upgrade!

24. Invitations. Sometimes I don’t feel like going. But it’s nice to be asked, isn’t it?

25. Markets. Thankful for the fresh food and interesting people that I get to see. Plus, I am getting better at bargaining. Can’t do that at the Gap.

26. Travel books. I pour over these like they are gold.

27. Opportunity to realize what things are important and not so important.

28. Dave Ramsey. This man changed our marriage and our family tree. I am thankful I can listen to his podcasts to stay motivated.

29. Armed Services. Thank you for everything.

30. Funny forwards. Sometimes you just need a good laugh.

31. Mash-ups. If you don’t know what these are, you should watch more Glee.

32. Jesus. Duh.

33. Lists. They help me provide clarity and stay organized. No problem was ever too big that couldn’t be conquered with a list.

34. Quotes. Big ideas with carefully chosen words, in just a few sentences that you can post where you can see it. Love it.

35. Our blog. I am so thankful that we can share what we are doing over here with people all over the world. Pretty cool.

36. Condo that is rented. We have two good renters and rent coming in every month. So beyond thankful!

37. Jobs. We have ’em when so many people don’t.

38. Chai tea. It is a bright spot in my mornings.

39. Dr. Pepper. I have been able to find this consistently at the grocery store, which is a miracle. Chances are it might not be there next time I go. So I’m thankful for it now.

40. Teachers pay teachers. Awesome website that pays teachers for all of the amazing work they do in creating lesson plans and units and lets me download them for a small fee.

41. Toilet paper in public bathrooms. I live in Asia, don’t forget.

42. Report cards for this semester being done. Thank goodness!

43. We live closer to the school than we used to and I don’t (usually) break into a sweat at 7:30 in the morning. Score.

44. Healthy babies born this year to friends and family. We have had so many babies born to friends and family this year and are thankful for every one. (And we love getting pictures of them!)

45. Good friends getting married (but not to each other). So happy that Slim and Abby are climbing on the marriage train this year! Yay for finding the person you want to be with the rest of your life!

46. Grandmother getting treatment for cancer. My grandmother was diagnosed with cancer earlier this year and while I am not thankful for her getting the cancer, I am so thankful that she has great doctors, my mom, and aunt to help her through this. Love you Ermie!

47. Ruffles on shirts being in style. Actually everyone that wears a “B” cup or below was pumped about this one.

48. Clorox wipes. A room that smells clean? Yes, please!

49. UGA vs. GT. Always my favorite game of the season. Thankful that I know and love people on both sides of the field!

50. Clothes that feel like pajamas but aren’t. You know, the kind that can be passed off for regular clothes in public, but you could sleep in later and feel perfectly fine.

51. My husband surprising me with tickets to Twilight the night it opened in Malaysia! Major points.

52. People that say “Excuse me.” Appropriate for adults and children to use.

53. Packages, suitcases, letters, facebook posts and emails from people back home. Thankful for the reminder of what we have waiting for us when we return. 🙂

54. The cute way some speakers of Asian languages add or take away “s” at the end of the word. For example, “Thanks for being my friends” when only talking to one person. Adorable! (And helped to inspire the perfect Thanksgiving blog title!)

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!